“I still remember the day my ex-husband said the D-word.”
“My entire body went into shock. I couldn’t believe this was happening to us, the golden couple everyone looked up to.
For months, I cried every night, grieving the loss of the life I thought I’d have forever.
I cried so much that the tears eventually became relief... then laughter... and finally, ecstasy.
It’s the feeling of being so undone that you feel completely free.
That’s when it clicked: What if this isn’t the end? What if this is my becoming?
That realization changed everything.”
That realization changed everything.”
-Clover Lam, Founder of The Divorce Glow Up
-Clover Lam, Founder of The Divorce Glow Up
Hi, I’m Clover Lam, a post-divorce reinvention coach for millennial women. Ten years ago, I was a 30-year-old, newly divorced flight attendant who had no idea who she was without her marriage.
I rebuilt my confidence, healed my heart, learned to manage my money, and reached financial independence by 40, retiring from my 20-year airline career and moving to Southeast Asia to live life fully on my own terms.
But my glow-up wasn’t just about money or milestones.
It was about coming home to myself: emotionally, spiritually, and energetically.
I realized that true transformation happens when we integrate inner healing with outer strategy.
Click below to hear more about my story and how I have navigated divorce over the last 10 years.